In the world of 2015, this Randi is represented by two separate but equal motivations: to find a new year’s resolution and a love of fun. These are Randi’s stories.
Monday, May 23, 2011
Five hundred twenty five thousand six hundred minutes
Wednesday, May 4, 2011
I do my best thinking by writing
Over the last 29 years, Nana held my hand a lot. When we went for walks. When she picked me up from school. When Granddaddy was in the hospital after his heart attack.
About eight years ago, Nana asked me if I would speak today. Even though she’s not here, I can almost feel her holding my hand and telling me I can do this.
Nana loved a lot of things. She loved her flowers. She loved coffee. She loved to cook. She loved naming the birds that flew in and out of her yard. But more than anything, she loved Willie. Nine years ago Nana’s heart was broken. The man that always held her hand and gave her courage was gone. A few weeks ago, she held my hand for the last time and told me that she would give anything in the world to feel Granddaddy’s arms around her again.
53 years is a very long time to hold someone’s hand. And nine years was a long time for her to live without him. She never really felt complete.
Nana used to tell me that when they were dating, Granddaddy would come and pick her up, against Grandma Parker’s wishes, and say, “Baby, let’s go.”
I believe that early Tuesday morning, finally, Willie stuck out that hand that she knew and loved so well and said, “Come on baby, let’s go.”